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  • My heart is numb. It’s not broke, it’s numb. It’s numb because of hard situations.” – YG Sometimes I feel like my life is just repetitive. It’s the

  • Time is free, but it’s priceless. You can’t own it, but you can use it. You can’t keep it, but you can spend it. Once you’ve lost it you can never get it back” – Harvy Mack

  • I feel completely empty, a complete void in my life right now. I’m not sure why I am feeling this way. I feel like my life has been placed on hold and I am waiting for some

  • What comes to mind when you hear the word “Betrayal”? Well, for me, the following comes to mind: lying, manipulating, deceit, sneaky, disloyal, unfaithful, cheater, user, a

  • We can impact so many lives without even knowing we made a difference in someone’s life. I believe we enter into people’s lives for reasons. Some are for good and then ther

  • “Study the past if you would define the future.” We all come from different walks of life. Some of us have had great experiences and some of us have had some experiences th

  • If you have read the section of my blog titled “My Identity” it will give you somewhat of a background into my current journey in life. What I am going to share is personal

  • There are many character traits, various personalities, and both can include positive and negative traits. In my therapy session yesterday, we discussed if our character tr

  • Let us consider the power of words. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble, and so on. Consi

  • Gratefulness… All the time I am reminded to be grateful for the things I have and don’t have. Many times, we can get lax and start complaining about what we don’t have and

  • Do we ever think of our negative traits? The other day in therapy I was given a list of positive character traits and I circled all the traits that I could relate to. I pre

  • We live in a world where we like to judging others is the norm. We judge people for their performances, on their clothing, on their personalities, on career choices, charac

  • Letting go of someone you’ve known for a while is so hard to do. You meet and find common interest about each other. Then you discover many similarities you both have and t

  • We all have a poker face. By poker face, I’m speaking of a mask. Every day we come into contact with many people. People we see at home, in our neighborhoods, and in our co

  • The other day I was questioned by my therapist, yes, I see a shrink, “Are you proud of the person you have become today?” I humbly replied, “Yes, of course.”. “Why is that?

Life on the Daily

I write about my life and the ups and downs I face. I try to look for the positives in every negative situation. My hope is to encourage others who may be facing a hard time and feeling like they’re alone. We all may face different trials but we all can use some encouragement through those trying times.

Sound Wisdom

No one can control your emotions, only you have that power and choice.

Thoughts come in two forms: negaitive and positive. Take hold, eat and allow the positive thoughts to take root. Dispose the negatives and do not allow them to take root.